Hello David,

Yes, there are several ways of contacting your loved ones who are in spirit.

1. I can't emphasize enough the importance of your working at having contact yourself. You may be able to, and it's an ability that will be available to you all the time if you find you have it. Sit quietly and meditate, thinking about them. Talk to them as you would someone still in a body and open yourself to feeling the answers. I say "feeling" because the contact normally doesn't come in words at first. Don't doubt or question what you feel. Enjoy it and respond. As you do that regularly, you may find that you get better and better contact. If you don't feel the contact, it isn't that they're not there; it's just that you may not be able to quiet the physical realm enough in your mind to receive their messages.

2. You may have a phone reading from one of the talented mediums. You dont have to be in the same room with a medium for your loved ones to communicate. They'll communicate with the medium. I have a list of mediums at http://www.youreternalself.com/mediums.htm.

3. Look to see if you are close to one of the trained induced after-communication (IADC) thereapists. We have a list of around 40 of them at http://www.induced-adc.com.

Your parents will come to you when you ask them to. You can communicate with them.

Love and peace, Craig