Hello Bernie,

When we stop using the body, we're exactly the same person we were before, when we were using the body. It's very much like driving to the store and back. When we get out of the car, we're still the same person we were when we got into it. The real person is your mind; the body has nothing to do with who you are.

As a result, when we continue living without the body, our likes, dislikes, fears, prejudices, loves, desires, all continue just as they were. We don't suddenly change. If you didn't like someone the day before you stopped using the body, you won't like that person the day after.

And so, for people to get together, you'll both have to want to do so. And there are no confrontations. You simply won't see each other if one doesn't want to.

Then you'll start to grow because of your new perspective. You may grow to be more tolerant or understanding after a few years or decades away from the Earth plane. You and that person may come to understand each other. But whatever happens, you aren't forced to reconcile or see each other, and you aren't forced to grow to tolerate each other. You make all the choices.

Love and peace, Craig