Dave, Bless your heart! I too lost my dearest lover of all times less than 2 yrs ago to Brain Cancer. We had been seperated for a few years when it happened, but I still was left devastated. At least he died with someone new in his life who made him smile!

My partner has since visited me in mediumship readings and seances many times as I travel the world. I know he lives on, yet it amazes me he still follows me. He is passionate about my spiritual/mediumistic progress and loves to support me in my life events. How just like him!

Know too that the one you love incredibly is with you, supporting you with his energy and inspirations! He kisses your cheek while you sleep. He touches your hair like the wind. As he lives on on the other side, he is working spiritually to help not only you, but others with like energies...to help them grow and expand spiritually and energetically. How truely glorious! (not to sound too preachy!ha) You WILL have pain and emotional outburst...why? because your soul was attached to his soul in a strong bond. Your friends have no clue what you need "energetically"...just be respectful to their comments and suggestions and say Thank you..but do what YOUR heart and soul are telling you! Listen to your own intuition. You will know the day you can accept the advances of another kindred spirit attracted to your Light. Now is obviously not the time. It took me 4 yrs and i LOVE men! ha It killed me to know he has someone else...but I also knew on the other side, he and I would be together again as 2 who love each other...and sadly, ha, I also knew his new lover would be our friend too once he crossed over to join us. yeah, that's a weird thought but im sure its true...its all love over there. ha

So, you have permission to sit alone and cry or reminise or journal out your heart! Make time to do someone that lights up your heart while you think of him...make it a date! Ask him to be with you...talk to him. Set out flowers for him. A chair. whatever...just talk to him. Send him your love. But also know, that at some point you need to let go. STrong energy and strong emotions of loss DO hold back spirit loved ones..they have told me so and many others in seances over the years. It holds them back from moving on to do other spiritual things for others and themselves. They need to evolve too! To have Christ Consciousness within...we must recognize that its not all about us...we must help our fellow man and loved ones advance. We will see them in no time! You deserve a hug...wish I could do that. Im a hugger... Take Care of yourself...

: Hi,

: I heard Craig Hogan's interview on Coast to Coast AM on youtube and I was very pleased, as it gave me a sense of comfort. I lost my partner (of 2.5 years) a little over 6 months ago and I would had never imagined at the time of his death (he was 21), that I would continue to feel worse and worse. It seems like everyone pushes me to move on and but I want to stay committed to him as long as I live. Is there anything wrong with continuing a relationship with someone who is not here anymore? And my other question is how can I feel closer to him? Thanks anyone who can give advice on this difficult situation that crushes me more every day.

: Thanks,
: Dave =)