Hi Craig,

Thank you for your wonderfully helpful boards. I've just been reading all the questions and responses.

I have a couple of odd questions. I noticed you mentioned to one woman that her husband would stay with her (or visit her when she called) and their bond would be preserved even as each of them also got on with their respective lives. In another post you mentioned Spirits don't remember past lives - how can the husband remember his wife or do you mean they can only remember their last lives?

I was engaged to be married but the man I loved passed a few weeks after he proposed. We had waited to have sex so he passed without us ever having that intimacy. I have read mixed stories about intimacy in or with the afterlife. Some say it is possible via dream visits or astral projection, others say is carnal and wrong to even think it and still others say it is something about which he has no interest. Can you clarify? It is very hard to handle the idea of never being able to be together.

My last question is: he has visited me very frequently and very strongly. I have been taking development classes to develop my psychic and mediumship skills and am making some progress. However, I don't feel him as strongly now, not as frequently and sometimes it seems not at all. Does spirit communication change after a few months (now that he's convinced me there is an afterlife, we do survive and it is him visiting). I don't understand this has happened.

Thanks for your help
Kat