Dear Kat
Hope you do not mind my adding a reply to your posting.
From my experience three months is very early days in grief terms and I think sometimes emotional state can obscure our ability to clearly communicate and receive messages from our loved ones. It is nearly 18 months since my husband passed and I recall wanting so much at terms to receive a communication I seem to block out everything for a while.
In the beginning I had many little signs from him but as I began to realise he was still around me the signs lessened. However I am left with a warm feeling almost of knowing that we will be never be apart but he has things to do as well as I have a life to live.
I still feel myself to be married and that our relationship is at a different level but just as loving. I Love him probably more than ever but I realise that the relationship we have now has to be based on faith and trust. What we mourn in a way is the loss of the physical relationship, the physical prescence but I believe in the next life all things are possible.
I see my husband in my minds eye and hear him sometimes. I know Craig's comments about personality is true. When I see him he is often doing things to make me smile and laugh just as he did on the earth plane.
I am sure your Loved one is closer than you realise but I think when we are grieving inside for what once was or could have been - we tune out for a while.
Craig recommended Phil G - if you google him and the words "coffee time "- you can see his "you tube" broadcast saying how we can talk to our Loved ones. I found this helped to gently open up channels.
In short I feel our Loved ones never leave us - Love never dies and the bond of Love means they are there when we need them whether we are aware of it or not.
Blessings to you
Sue