Craig,

Firstly, I just wanted to say I think it is amazing that you take the time to answer all of these questions with well-written answers based on all of your research and especially for as long as you have been doing so. That amount of patience is very commendable.

I had a few things that were on my mind that seem to make me feel overwhelmed and have been on my mind for a while now.

1. Would it be safe to say that the person we are now is the summation of all of our past experiences and maturity? As in, your current incarnation is a continuation of your previous life which was a continuation of the previous life and so forth. I hope that doesn't sound confusing and I hope the idea gets accross.

2. As for spiritual maturity, is that really all there is to existence? It almost feels like focusing on one thing would become, not boring, but I do not think I can find the word for it...maybe monotonous is the word. I was reading a previous answer about a spouse on the other side not so much engaging in conversation or engaging in hobbies, but instead helping the spouse mature. The exact text being "And so someone who has crossed into spirit before a spouse will be more interested in helping their spouse grow and mature than in having exciting conversation or sharing new hobbies Someone who has matured spiritually on the next plane will be more interested in helping his or her spouse adjust to the new surroundings and grow in spiritual maturity. They won’t need to be entertained or have stimulating conversations about events. . "
Now is that all there really is? I mean, I do enjoy having conversations and sharing things with a spouse and doing entertaining things with said person., I can't comprehend that maturing is the only thing there is to so, that scares me.

3. Now my final question is regarding partners. I understand that on the other side the urge to posess someone is not there. What if your partner is not someone you feel the need to possess, and not someone you are with for financial or physical beauty reasons,, but instead someone you love totally unconditionally and share that love mutually. I can't imagine crossing over and just ending our bond, connection, and immense love for one another. I understand that everyone seeks to serve one another, and that is something i feel i do in my daily life, but what about two people who share a connection that they do not share with anyone else. Someone who they feel like they have known in another life, I guess you could say. Does such a thing as a twin flame soulmate exist? Can such partners remain together for eternity if they so wish?