Thanks Craig,

You wrote:
I've never heard of someone striking up a relationship on the next plane of life and forgetting a loved one here...

So, he could quite possibly strike up a relationship of love with another soul...but would still be there for me when I cross?? How would he decide who he would want to be with more...me or the other soul? This seems so confusing to me and yet I realize I don't grasp the way things are probably very different there. For instance...if he matures and grows and has a loving new relationship with a soul...will he be with both of us when I cross or just me? If I meet someone else in this life...if we both cross, will I be with my first husband or the second if indeed, we all have strong love for each other? It is hard to carry on on earth feeling like I may be being unfaithful and not knowing what he is doing realtionship wise. If he is still possessive this will hurt him and I do'nt ever want that as he is the love of my life. Is it true that he may feel sadness at missing me? He keeps saying how happy he is and I miss him so....I am so confused.