Sue,

I posted a similar message about a dream that was rejecting that I had about my husband as well after he had passed and I had a very good relationship with him. Iy upset me very mush as well and Craig's response comforted me. If you scroll down the forum you will find it. He assured me as I feel with yours, that this was only a dream and an actual visitation from your/our husband would be positive, loving and we would know for sure it was them, as there would be a kind of message attached.