Dear Craig and Nin
Thank you both for your heartfelt comments. Sometimes when the pain of grieving is great - logical thought is just not available.
Your comments have comforted and helped me greatly.

Nin having read your comments on the forum - we have a lot in common and I send you heartfelt and sincere good wishes as I know you are hurting too. For both of us we have to take things slowly and not think too far ahead.I know panic takes hold and it is hard at times to follow logic.

My wedding anniversary was blessed with a number of signs from my dear husband - showing me he is working hard on the other side to support and care for me with the same love as before. I know if I just let myself go with the flow things will fall into place..

Thank you both again
with love

sue