I have often wondered how we appear to others in the afterlife. Do we appear as we did when we were younger on the earth plane? Do we remain male or female as we were in the physical realm? Can we change gender or change our age/appearance from adult to child? Can we modify our physical characteristics to appear as we wish? There are numerous descriptions of children in the afterlife, but is that because they were children when they passed over? Do they grow up over time as they did on the earth plane?