Craig, I'm a bit confused. I'm gathering there is no sex in the afterlife? However, you said, "The afterlife is just like this life. People don't understand that." Then I would have to assume that there IS sex in the afterlife, since that's all we seem to be preoccupied with here, besides eating. Plus, I heard the recording of the man who was met by his horse Jenny after he died and the horse greeted him with a big kiss! Now, if horses can kiss, so can people. And if they can kiss, why would they draw the line there? Try telling someone whose husband or wife died, "You can see him or her in the afterlife, but, sorry, no sex!" See how well that goes over! Does this sound like "heaven" to you? Remember, sex is the ultimate expression of love between two people. Maybe you were thinking of hell.